Three Big Ideas That Will Change Your Reality

Transform your reality.

I believe in constantly challenging my assumptions, thinking outside the box, and pushing myself to the limit of transformation – constantly expanding my horizons both mentally and physically.

In the last 60 days I have completely transformed my perception of myself, reality, and the world.

In November I  joined “The Foundation” – a 6 month online mentoring program for software startups. As you may notice from some of my older posts here, I have been a huge fan of the ideas of Dane Maxwell for a long time.

Dane has one of the most unique ways of the looking at the world (much the same reason that I like Tim Ferriss) and he takes a lot of this unconventional thought to a whole new level – well beyond even the awakening I had after reading the 4HWW for the first time.

After emailing this list of links out to friends again and again, I decided that I needed to put them in a blog post so I could share these eye opening ideas with as many people as possible.

Here are three “big ideas” that I have taken away from The Foundation. I wanted to share with you a few podcasts, videos and interviews that encapsulate each of these concepts.

Focus On Changing Your Mindset First

“If you play the game at the belief level, everything shifts.” – Dane Maxwell

The single biggest and most important takeaway for me was to focus on understanding and eliminating my limiting beliefs. This single shift, which requires some seriously deep emotional thinking, has transformed the way that I act and think about the world.

“The framework is this:

The beliefs you have lead to the feelings you feel.

The feelings you feel lead to the thoughts you think.

The thoughts you think lead to the actions you take.

The actions you take lead to the results you get.

So, instead of focusing just on the actions or the thoughts – go to your deepest level – your beliefs about the world – make one minor shift in your beliefs and you will see a ripple effect on everything in your life.”

– Andy Drish

If you check out nothing else from this post, listen to this podcast immediately. This one hour podcast really sums up most of the core lessons that I have taken away from Andy and Dane at the Foundation – and has a big discussion about limiting beliefs that opened my eyes to the power of uncovering and demolishing your limits.

If you want to find out more specifics on reversing and breaking down limiting beliefs, check out this 30 minute video where Dane explains the process.

I have also included a few more links at the end of this post for those who want to do a deeper dive into discovering their own limiting beliefs.

Forget ‘Finding Your Passion’

Do you struggle with the notion of finding your passion? Do you waffle around between ideas or keep waiting until you find that perfect fit where you will be in harmony with what you are doing?

“Because of.. the myth that you have to be passionate about your idea to do it. My thought is most successful entrepreneurs have done so many different things. You couldn’t even point to what their passion is.” – Hiten Shah

The whole concept creates a tremendous amount of frustration, confusion and dissatisfaction. Instead, highly successful software entrepreneur Hiten Shah (founder of Kiss Metrics) says – optimize for learning and forget trying to find your passion.

“I would just emphasize what you want to learn about. If you want to learn about marketing because you think it’s really important to any idea then just go learn about marketing and try different things and you’ll pretty much find what you’re aligned with, right? If you’re really dying to build software online and build software as a service products or learn how to program because you think that that’s what you need to do then just go learn it. Just start learning. Figure out what you think you’re most attracted to and start learning it.” – Hiten Shah

Focusing on learning removes fear and ego from the equation – it creates a path forward and a framework for you to stay resilient even in tough times.

If you’re optimizing for learning fear doesn’t come into the equation because you’re always seeking new things, seeking how to do something better, seeking the best way to do it, seeking the knowledge and so fear isn’t even part of the equation, it’s not even the thought that comes to mind because you’re like, “Well, how can I learn how to do that?”  -Hiten Shah

Here’s the full interview with Andy Drish and Hiten Shah. One of my business partners told me that listening to this interview was one of the single biggest turning points in his business career – I highly recommend checking it out.

Take Action, Quickly and Often

One of the largest mistakes you can make is not taking enough action – even if you are unsure what direction you are moving in (isn’t that the essence of being an entrepreneur anyway?).

“Recklessly take action on everything. If you wait to feel good before you take action, you’re totally screwed” – Dane Maxwell

To be a successful entrepreneur you have to have an action bias. Peter Shallard “the shrink for entrepreneurs” breaks down the reasons behind this philosophy in this great one hour interview with Andy Drish.

“Focus on [] relentlessly trying to shorten the gap between having an idea and acting on it. … There’s certain things in business that school, high school and your parents just won’t prepare you for. And college won’t prepare you for. Nothing will prepare you for other than doing it. The biggest problem I see is that people have these ideas. They’re like, “Oh, I should try this,” like X, Y, Z marketing tactic or “I should build a website or whatever,” and then they think about it and trying to decide whether or not it’s right; whether or not the strategy is correct.

They really are thinking about strategy very, very carefully. But when you’re just starting out I think that you should road test everything. Any idea that you have should be implemented as quickly as possible and then you make your deductions based on real world results. Experiential data rather than kind of sitting there brainstorming and doing planning. In a way what I’m saying is kind of to over exaggerate it. Don’t plan anything, just do a bunch of stuff.” – Peter Shallard

That’s pretty powerful stuff right? The phase “relentlessly shorten the gap between ideas and action” has become a huge focus for me.

Here is an amazing video with Noah Kagan (founder of App Sumo) and Tim Ferriss (one of my favorite authors of all time) where Noah shows in real time how quickly you can break down an idea and take meaningful action – instead of pretending to make progress. I’m still amazed every time I watch this video, the clarity of thought that Noah brings to the table is just astounding.

Extra Credit – More on Removing Limiting Beliefs

Here are a few more resources for digging deeper on the limiting belief front.

More on the the “Four Questions” for reversing limiting beliefs, this framework is originally from renowned psychologist Byron Katie.

These 2 posts by entrepreneur Rob Scott are also fantastic resources on how our mindset impacts our thoughts and actions and how we have to focus on shifting our subconscious before we do anything else. Rob’s work within the Foundation was one of the most powerful things I have experienced so far.

Mindset is the most important thing.

The power of the subconscious. (this video is eye-opening if you ever feel like you’ve been stuck in a rut)

Thank You

Thank you so much for reading this post. I really hope some of these ideas have as profound an impact for you as they have had for me.

Here’s a quick recap of the three big ideas:

  1. Shift your mindset first

  2. Optimize for learning

  3. Shorten the gap between ideas and actions

If you even start implementing one of them in your life it could have a huge impact.

If you’re looking for a few books that also fit within this eye opening worldview, I would highly recommend checking this post out as well.

Thank you again for reading.

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Matt Bodnar

Matt loves to focus on making deals and big picture strategy. He sets out each day to give more than he takes from every interaction and produce as much value as possible for his partners and the people he works with. As a partner at Fresh Hospitality Matt invests in and operates businesses across the restaurant value chain including agriculture, production, retail distribution, real estate, technology and restaurant operations. Matt previously worked as an import/export consultant in Nanjing, China and spent several years on the Interest Rates Desk at Goldman Sachs before returning to his family roots in Nashville.

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